Friday, December 30, 2011

TOMORROW IS A NEW YEAR


I can only guess what you have to offer
Mystery and suspense surrounds your intended takeover
No one can surely describe how you will look like
When the stage you take
But either way we hope you will give us a reason to smile

I hope you heard that Otiende left the city for the lake
And Wanjiru sold her kiosk
This was after Kipyego left her for Mosop.
By the way, Wanjala gave up hope of getting a job
Now he survives on Allsops

It has been a tough unending year
Living standards getting higher and higher
With the horizon never getting clearer
You are what many describe as the messiah
If not then doom is really getting near

Kiplimo the farmer wishes you come inform of unending rain,
So that his crops may grow
Mwangi the business man wishes that you may introduce his rein
That his losses may go
All we hope is that you bless us that our worries we let go

Did I mention that you are fully filled in his calendar?
If he says he aint anxious he will only be a pretender
Power exit is his greatest worry
I hear the electorate has had enough to be wary about
They know what to do with their vote

Oh beautiful new year
Your birth is so near
Should I be happy or you should I fear
I cannot say what you have in store
But at least I know God saw me through this before.

Happy New Year Reader.
Letters from the Hocla Diary







Friday, August 12, 2011

WHEN THE MOON DOESN’T WANT TO SLEEP


When the moon goes to bed
I know it’s a new day
The sun’s rays means its gonna be okay
But what happens when the moon misses the sun?

Didn’t God say let there be day light?
And let the moon light the night?
This must have sent the moon out of sight
Which meant the two lit two kingdoms apart
But what happens when the moon misses the sun?

Nature may set us apart
Far apart like hill tops between a valley
And make us feel far away
But what happens when the moon misses the sun?

Some things seem beyond our control
Making misery take its toll
Pushing our thoughts down the lonely trail
But what happens when the moon misses the sun?

When loneliness seems to be my friend
I will not pretend
I will take a step
Because when the moon misses the sun
It never goes to sleep but shares in the warmth of its morning rays





Tuesday, August 9, 2011

AT YOUR CROSS

My heart is empty
I am longing for the ear piece
Some blast to help me forget this
A rough patch this is
I need something that will give me some inner peace
To last a while albeit temporary
I need a time with you to settle this furry
I will vent it out on you
I will ask for help from you
I have issues to settle with you my Lordship
Are you listening or do I come closer
Do I need a spaceship
You seem so far away
I am at cross roads
I need some answers
Both hands are holding on
I am trembling
I’m running out of energy to hold on
But letting go I wont
That is not an option
On your cross lies my solution
Answer my prayer dear Lord
Am on my knees
Will you listen to my pleas?
My eyes are looking up to you
You died that I may be free
From all chains I know it is true
Only you know what it is
The key to this seemingly closed door

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

WILL THE CHASE EVER END?

Money money money
Is in the hearts of many
Money like beauty is desirable
It is a daily prayer request to the miserable
It’s the buzzing sound to those in the hustle
It’s a fairy tale to those who have given up
but the ladder to those scaling economic heights
and those aiming for the top
But to those already there it isn’t the final stop
We are born and money search becomes the obvious step
we train our children to catch up
Flex muscles and learn skills to match up
even after settling down
and appearing on a pay roll
thinking we got it all pinned down
it never is enough
When life gets tough
the desire keeps mutating
and the endless pit keeps echoing
asking for more and more
Is this what we are living for?
I once thought a k was all I needed
but that was just the beginning
of a chase with no ending
Money money money
wait for me I’m coming
When will I catch up with you?
You are always on a fast pace
fooling me to hasten my steps
Doing everything to reduce the gap
only for me to fall in your trap
leaving me with air gasps
where did we go wrong?
is it when we were evicted where we belonged
from the garden where we had it all
but still man chose to fall
what can replace this?
and give us a new meaning of life?
A day starts and ends with the same strife
especially in this economic times
it gets harder by each dawn
living a life oiled by dime
money is claimed to lubricate life joints
it is a course to the river
and beauty to the diva
Where money goes
there will be friends, family and foes
Money is good
I am told
It’s a blessing from God
This is so to them that are no fools
because money like beauty
corrupts when it gets to one's mind
And strangles the conscience
Making void the human heart
Money is not food for the soul

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

I.D.P NATION

On a recent face book update dated 8th July 2011, a friend was complaining of how Kenya donated one million U.S dollars, the equivalent of 82 million Kenya shillings to assist victims of the devastating earthquake and tsunami that hit Japan in March this year. According to him, this was so unfair with the IDP situation in Kenya yet to be resolved. He used an analogy of a mother giving food to a neighbour’s children when her own were malnourished and desolated. That gets many thinking of a government Intentionally Deserting its People.

Let me give you a tour of what I mean by my title of an IDP Nation. IDP to a computer geek in a Kenyan University might mean Integrated Data Processing, while a track driver along Uganda-Kenya boarder may know it to mean International Drivers Permit. For the broadband penetration spam gangs and digital copyright pirates it sends a cold chill down their spine because it implies Internet Death Penalty.
A closer look at the acronyms in my motherland Kenya, I have come to the conclusion that over time, the term in practical sense may also connote Individual Development Plan. Internally Displaced Persons (IDP) is a term that somehow has been misused for selfish reasons. Some time ago, I heard that some IDPs from the Kwanza regions of Trans Nzoia had pitched camp at the District Commissioner’s office demanding for a place to stay as they had been evicted from their own homes. Since they were eating in hotels and drinking bottled mineral water courtesy of government and donor funding, rumour has it that every Otieno, Wanjiku, Kiplimo and Wafula in town was now virtually sympathizing with them and offering to take a break from their jobs and join in the free once in a while festive.

I don’t want to raise eyebrows for the wrong reasons but don’t you think the whole thing has gone too far? There is this joke which might not be really amusing to some but it can serve as food for thought if you are familiar with the IDP situation in Kenya. The thought of how some people had been pushed to the wall by harsh economic situation as a result of post poll violence may serve as an explanation. But what happens when you come across a Kinuthia in Kiambu calling himself an IDP or an IDP Kipyego in Kericho highlands of Rift Valley? I am socialist and humanist by all means but I feel bad when three years down the line people are still hanging on to this IDP tag and crying for donor and government handouts. 

Is there a way people can accept responsibility and move on with life even if they are not to blame for the circumstances they are in? Take for instance; what happens when you are right from high school or college looking for a job in a new town with no one to run to, do you resort to living in garbage pits or go begging for food door to door? Probably no you pick yourself up and try all avenues to make ends meet. Even though some opt for precarious survival options, still many rise from scratch to make a living.

Elections’ being marred by post poll violence is no news in some parts of the world. Take Uganda my country of residence as a classic case; there was a period of agitation characterized by violence, chaos and general unrest in many parts and specifically in Kampala where the seat of power of believed to be situated. This is a price people pay for putting misplaced loyalty to a good for nothing tribesman at the expense of visionary people centred leadership in case there is that alternative.

Economic development does not thrive where the phenomenon of peaceful coexistence and transparent governance and leadership is nonexistent.  We can go ahead and point fingers at the government but what happens when a people are ignorant enough to be subjects and perpetrators of violence? How ignorant are Kenyans that after the 1992 post election violence, came the 1997 one and 2002 was not entirely peaceful in some parts of the country? Even when the Moi regime was painted as the years of tyranny, how come the worst post poll years came after he had handed over power to the then thought peoples’ messiahs? What ensued then if not violence Kenya had never experienced before? Does it serve any good to later complain when ends are not met through the eccentric means which in this case are aggression and fight for political control outside the ballot box? Some might argue contrary to my view point which is understandable in a world of freedom of expression and opinion but what is the logic in being influenced to rise against an innocent neighbor simply because they are from another tribe? 

On July 6th, the Daily Nation reported a story of how the members of I Don’t Pay taxes Parliament were conspiring to strip the PM’s and the VP’s wives of their allowances if the three do not revoke the efforts to make MP’s pay taxes. And to make their threats more serious, the principals were risking going home without the golden handshake in form of allowances. I know you may think I was amused by this habitual peculiar selfish trend in Mr. Politician but I was not. What got me smiling is the swearing, cursing and the strong anti Mr. politician chants that recurrently echoed as I went through the comments that followed the link. One thing that I can promise for sure is that come the next general election, we might as well be sure to have more Individual Destruction Plans when the hated-(read secretly loved) bribe dishing politicians turn to the youths for assistance. 

In my assumption, what goes on in the negotiation chambers is; I give you the ignorant electorate ksh 100/probably a dollar for chang’aa or keg and you give me the power to take my children to study in the west. In other words, I am buying your neighbour’s right to sleep in a descent house. When all is said and done, 2012 might be another year for the national self made IDPs rhythm. It is an Individual Development Plan for the Kinuthia’s of Kiambu and Kipyegos of Kericho who are after the government and humanitarian free goodies while to the Chepkurget in Eldoret who cannot sell her milk to the mama Wanjikus, this is nothing but an Individual Destructive Program.

Imagine producing milk in surplus and you cannot sell the milk to your neighbour because you need his money but not the living body that works for the money. Think about that Kenyan working tirelessly to own a car which is a symbol of prosperity in the village in the times when petrol is for the selected few in a land of barricaded roads due to violence. And what about the Kenyan businessman in Malaba who cannot access his goods because the youths in Kibera have enough extra energy to destroy railway lines but still cry foul over unemployment. What of the woman in Korogocho struggling to raise ksh. 100 where a 20 litre container costs 20 shillings because peace is an alien word? 

Give it a thought before you go In Deep Prayer to intercede for or recommend Mr. Politician the “monster” to the pope for absolution. He is just playing his cards well in a survival for the fittest Darwinian world and in case you are yet to be oriented into the workings of the system, then welcome to manipulation 101. As there is the wine connoisseur, so is the political mind reader in other words politics genius playing with his subjects like characters on a chess board. Those who are familiar with the phrase “wanapiga watu wetu vita bali sio mimi pekee/it’s not only me but our people that are being fought” know what I mean.

In a multi tribal society of 42 aligned along “those” verses “us”, some politicians thrive in an Inter Dependency Political strategy to survive the cut and make it to the house of law makers.  Such a mentality conceives the Gemas unity of survival necessity and the KKKs in a land where Mr. I Divide People carries the day. When objectives are achieved through the divide and rule strategy of development Ideas Deprived People in parliament, our sins catch up with us and then we are In Deep Problems when Ocampo comes calling. When that happens, the culprit big fish eyeing the house on the hill has nothing left but to chant a prayer, “Hope I Don’t Perish now that our people cannot salvage my political future.”

 It will be a presupposition to generally claim that all politicians are a bunch of venal and egocentric leaders if I don’t pause and applaud some of the selfless and people centred leaders Kenya boasts of presently and in the past.  Nevertheless, it is somehow innate that human beings have a high propensity to be selfish and the selfishness accelerates in the company of the like minded. While the original Kenyan IDP still spend cold nights in drenched tents, I Do Pray that the noble few humanistic political activists will push the salvation agenda forward and spread a peaceful propaganda for the sake of the future that will see the birth of an anti-IDP Nation.

See you fellow citizens of an IDP nation after the 2012 general elections if God wills. With the repeated political patterns over the years, I hope it is not going to be possible for even the worst of history students to somehow predict the future political alignments and possible post poll outcome based on past events.
God bless Kenya my motherland.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

WORRIES AND PROBLEMS


Matthew 6:25-ff

"........25Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?

26Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?


27Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature?

28And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin:


29And yet I say unto you, That even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.
30Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith?

31Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
 32(For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.



33But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.


34Take therefore no thought for tomorrow: for tomorrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof."
(King James Version)


 
Life is short enough for you to make it shorter!!!!!


IGNORANT OR INNATELY SELFISH?

I am risking writing on something that may make me unpopular or popular for the wrong reasons but let me hope by addressing it from a different angle; you will see it my way.

I am a young African freelance writer living in the internet age. I grew up in town more so in a Christian environment. I attended formal schooling at a time when that was the most obvious step in one’s life. Thus I am a product of the environment I grew up in. Whatever values I hold in my heart and consider to be right are as a result of the schooling, the western cultural ideals, Christianity and modernization as a whole. I expect the same from most of my readers because we are who we are based on the environment we have grown in. But I hope this will reach a schooled African reader of the golden days’ generation. What I need is their perspective on an aspect of our African cultural heritage. 
 
Culture by definition is that complex whole which includes knowledge, belief, art, morals, law, custom and practices, and any other capabilities and habits acquired by man as a member of society or social environment. Goodenough (1957)

Culture as an element of existence is present in nearly every living creature. While men live in social groups, primates don’t walk in isolation, they coexist. While we nurture our offspring a lot and do everything to bring them up in the most excellent possible way, carnivores kill just to protect their young ones. Culture defines what is right and wrong and by so doing dictates how a member of a social group conducts themselves.

Culture is eminent in all human races. It acts as the pallet on which an artist blends his paint. It is the ground on which an athlete trains for the sports career task ahead. It is the school to the western civilization, the informal orientation under grandma’s tutorage by the fireplace, the evening walks to the African and the programming software to a computer wizard.  It is a potter’s mould and the metal worker’s kiln. Out of the process of cultural orientation, a human is born. It is this orientation into the ways of a particular culture that makes us uniquely able to identify with fellow men. 

If every living thing has a cultural existent, are there cultures that are better than others? Egocentrism is a trait present in nearly every one of us. This by definition implies that we consider our culture to be better than other peoples. 

This article is provoked by a paragraph in T.D Jakes’ book REPOSITIONING YOURSELF that I have been reading for the last three months. That is not to mean it isn’t interesting to read. It’s a hell of a motivational piece of Christian writing for those who know what I mean. 

Let me make one thing straight first. I am not a misogynist. I believe that all people have a right to fair treatment. I respect and see sense in the gender equality Jakes advocates for in chapter eleven of his book. This is not Nationalism or patriotism at play since his plot of the chapter is a village in West Pokot District in Kenya but a concern that any other proud African might raise. 

On page 187, he mentions the subject that has generated debate for many years; Female circumcision. If I can quote, “…..Usually, the girl’s mother would then prepare her daughter for her new husband by vaginally mutilating her so that her clitoris would be cut away in what is called female circumcision but looks-as I saw many horrific pictures of it –more like female castration.” 

He goes on to say, “….I later learnt that many girls bleed to death in the bush from these castrations since they are often performed with such primitive tools as goat horns……Admittedly, I come from a different culture and may not understand the finer points of this complex ritual. I also understand that not all aspects of this ritual are performed by unsanitary goat horns in the bush. However, based on my observations, research and extensive questioning of Africans from many tribes, I remain troubled by the way it damages women-creating infection, deteriorating marriages and endangering child birth.”

But one question that has been going through my mind to the point of making me write this article is: What exactly is the cultural reasoning and justification behind the practice? Let me begin by shading some light on how it was done, which communities perform the rite and its global presence, and the vindications behind it. 

HOW WAS IT PERFORMED?
Definition
Defining the practice depends on the standing point of the writer. By trying to be as neutral as possible, I lack a better way of describing it. This is because the practice has been called by many names. According to one of my university professors aligned to the traditional African cultural school of thought, the practice to an ancient day African is the female cut just as we have the male cut while to a western mind, it is genital mutilation.

On the other hand, we have the term clitoridectomy coming into the picture. The reason for the use of this terminology is because the practice is performed on the clitoris which is a part of the female genitalia. It also describes a major part of the process involved in the practice. The types of procedures undertaken in female genital cut can be broadly classified into four groups, ranging from the removal of a small part of the clitoris to infibulations, where the clitoris and labia minora are completely excised or cut out, the wound sewn shut, and just a small opening is left for urine and menstrual flow.

According to the World Health Organization, the practice is more of Female genital mutilation (FGM) because of the fact that the procedures intentionally alters or injures the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.

WHO PRACTICED IT?
While most of the fingers may point at Africa, research shows the practice to be a global concern. According to a publication compiled by Laura Reymond, Asha Mohamud, and Nancy Ali, it is evident that FGM is a global cultural practice. 

The cultural practice has over the years been part of more than 28 African countries, a number of Asian countries as well as some communities in South and North America. The worst form of the practice, called infibulation which is the removal of the external genitalia and the stitching of the vaginal opening - is common to Djibouti, Sudan and Somalia, and also is reported in Egypt, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Kenya, Mali and Nigeria. 

Some countries like the Democratic Republic of Congo and Uganda have a 5% incidence. Here in Uganda, to the Sabiny (people of Kapchorwa Uganda), every young girl and boy is supposed to be circumcised as a traditional rite of passage to adulthood in December every even year.  

The Somali ethnic group in Kenya has the highest prevalence of female genital mutilation - 97 per cent of Somali women have undergone the procedure. In Egypt, 97 per cent of married women aged 15-49 have been circumcised.  In West Africa, Senegal and Burkina Faso are among some of the most notorious for the practice.

Outside Africa, the female cut is performed in Asian regions like Singapore, Malaysia and Indonesia. It has also been reported in the Middle East. In Malaysia, it varies from state to state, but it is said that the procedure is generally performed while the girl is in her infancy (usually before her second birthday).

While most of the obvious arguments are based on assumptions that the practice is done in the most un professional and unhygienic ways, the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) recently sounded an alarm against a new trend of female genital mutilation where parents are using health-care workers to perform cutting in the belief that any medical problems of female circumcision can be minimized. There have also been reports of same procedure being performed by doctors in certain medical clinics in Singapore.

If cultural upholding and ignorance to human rights and fair treatment of the women and girls has been the basis for most of the reported cases of the female cut, this new trend raises new concerns. What of the trained medical physicians who carry out the cut with all the knowledge of its harm to a woman’s body?

The Statistical Standings
Statistically speaking the WHO estimates 100 to 140 million girls and women worldwide to be currently living with the consequences of the practice. It is also argued that the practice is mostly carried out on young girls sometime between infancy and age 15 years. In Africa an estimated 92 million girls from 10 years of age and above have undergone FGM. 

According to No Peace Without Justice, an Italian NGO working to eliminate female genital mutilation, there are now between 120 million to 130 million women worldwide who have undergone female genital mutilation. 

However UNFPA estimated 120 to 140 million women have been subject to this harmful and dangerous practice and 3 million girls continue to be at risk each year. The UN World Health Organisation says three million girls per year undergo some form of genital cutting, mainly in 28 countries of Africa and the Middle East. 

THE MOTIVATION BEHIND THE PRACTICE
According to one argument, what seems certain is that deeply entrenched beliefs about gender have played a major role in the propagation of the practice. The WHO points out that FGM is often motivated by beliefs about what is considered proper sexual behavior, linking procedures to premarital virginity and marital fidelity.

One main school of thought is for the idea that female circumcision prepares girls for responsible marriage life. Girls who are not circumcised, it is argued, are immoral, make rude wives and daughters-in-law.
This argument may be put in a different way based on ones knowledge of what exactly accompanies the cut. The girls would undergo some form of training in the hands of elderly women. They were trained into responsible motherhood, faithfulness, how to take care of their men among other domestic issues.  This could be something positive about the rite of passage if clitoridectomy is done away with.

One of the young ladies I talked to argued that failure to circumcise females could be the major factor behind increased cases of restlessness and other forms of immoral behavior among the young generations.  This view point is held by those who feel that failing to talk the young people into responsible sexual life and generally preparing them for adulthood is a cause for the increased cases of divorces and sexual misconduct.

Additional underlying factors for the practice include sociological which meant the practice was a stage of passage for girls into womanhood, social integration and the maintenance of social cohesion.

A more physical biased group would argue that hygienic and aesthetic grounds promoted the practice. Here, it is believed that the female genitalia is dirty and unsightly. This lot believes that sexually it was done to control or reduce female sexuality. Ultimately done to reduce a woman's sexual desire, it is argued that it ensured her virginity until marriage. The more extensive procedure, involving stitching of the vagina, has the same aim, but reducing the size of the vagina is also intended to increase the husband's enjoyment of the sexual act. 

The above reason to me somehow points back to men and their selfish egos. Man has been known to subdue his subjects somehow with cruel means. In a society where the best parts of a chicken were reserved for the man and the woman was considered part of the man’s possession, this cultural practice may have been part of man’s selfish schemes designed to rule over those he considered his subjects.

While there was no major religious connotation to the practice as for the Hebrew males, some believed that it is a religious requirement.

Socio-economic factors range from the cut being a prerequisite for marriage and where women are largely dependent on men - economic necessity can be a determinant to undergo the procedure. The cut may also be a major source of income for circumcisers. 

Other varied justifications include the fact that a girl who is not circumcised is considered unclean in some communities and therefore unable to marry. A girl who does not have her clitoris removed can also be considered a great danger and, ultimately, fatal to a man’s health.


THE EFFECTS
The health consequences of the practice can be severe.  According to the World Health Organization (WHO), the effects can include severe pain, shock, excessive bleeding which can lead to death if not attended to, tetanus in the event that an unsterilized tool is used, or HIV if infected tools are used, urine retention, open sores and injury to nearby tissue. 

In a world where HIV is one of the major causes of increased debates on the need to observe hygienic standards on health matters, this practice can be considered a major blow to efforts put in place to curb the problem.

The reasoning behind this is the fact that the whole world with minor exceptions is on war with the practice. Without the necessary health and hygiene knowledge and a conducive environment to perform the practice, many have resorted to doing it in great secrecy to avoid being lynched by the proponents of human rights crusades.

On the other hand the effects can be long term.  These may include recurrent bladder and urinary tract infections, infertility, and an increased risk of childbirth complications and newborn deaths, difficulties during sexual intercourse, menstrual problems, recurrent urinary and kidney infections, chronic infections of the uterus and vagina, infertility, acute problems during labour and birth, chronic vulva abscesses and difficulty in using contraceptive methods and general sexual dysfunction. 

While some may have been lucky to safely undergo the practice, there are those who have lived to testify of its long term effects. Deaths due to excessive bleeding, inability to enjoy sexual intercourse, post practice trauma as a result of forcefully being subjected to the practice are some of the reported cases.

The many psychological effects include anxiety prior to operation, trauma, and sense of humiliation, sense of betrayal by parents, severe depression, and loss of sleep due to psychological trauma, nightmares and post traumatic stress syndrome.

Unlike before, most of the modern day efforts to carry on the practice have been made via force due to increase human rights sensitization from all quarters. Thus most of the young women forced into the practice have been deprived of a sense of self worth and belonging to the free generation and are left to live a life of self pity and general trauma.

MY THOUGHTS
The research above shows that a lot has been done to shed light and try curb the continuity of this practice. One obvious fact that has been continually underlined is that the practice of clitoridectomy is by all means brutal and inhuman.

But even as we argue against this practice for the obvious reasons cited above, could there be something positive about it? Another question that still lingers in my mind is why exactly is the western world against a cultural practice that at one point was considered an appropriate phase of any young woman’s life. 

Even with the findings above, it still remains clear that not everything reported about the practice is exactly the case. Assuming that some voices in the scholarly world came to the rescue of the practice basing their argument on solid researched facts; would the world see it in a different light?

One factor that explains the dynamic aspect of culture is that culture changes when it comes into contact with another. Each may or may not pick something from the other. While the African customs, beliefs and cultural components are a heritage to some of its people, one may argue that it lost its taste partly when the barrel was pointed to the carrier’s forehead.  In addition to this, exposure and availability of room for comparison and choices led to the loss of ground for its proponents. Salt tastes sour when sugar is brought into the equation.

How else do you explain a situation where a tree hates its roots? And even when the roots are worthless, can’t we see sense in holding on to the ground that once gave life to the tree? Like I earlier tried to exonerate myself, I understand the pain that some of our women and girls had to go through just to be considered grownups. But were there no other ways of doing this? The answer is yes. The practice was not entirely about the cut. A lot of pre practice and post practice issues were seriously addressed. 

Before we fight to completely eradicate the practice, it’s important to find out whether there could be some positive impact in it. This is in the training that the young people were offered just before or after they underwent the rite of passage. When such is known to us, we will be in a position to know what our modern generations are missing out and thus find ways of advocating for the same training.

If we were to come up with a better word for the practice, I think initiation would do. Female Genital Mutilation, Female Castration as Jakes puts it depends on factors such as who is speaking, their background and the target audience. The quotation that led to this article is justified to his American audience. The chapter is dedicated to women and in the arena of mental patronage, one ought to know how to use the right words to captivate your audience and in the long run pay your bills. Calling the practice female castration is a little far stretched and insulting to an African who knows that even if his/her mother is lame, she still is ones mother. While for those who fall in the Female Genital Mutilation mass, could it be the term was coined in the negotiations meetings just as the proposal for funding was being signed by some multi-billion donor company? I am not sure.

Was there anything positive is this practice that was carried on by our people for many years? Still I ask. I am yet to come across majority of Africans that will speak for it. All we have done is remain tongue tied and watch the neighbor call us names trying to make sense of actions foreign to him but part of our culture. When this is the situation, the report given out there to the world is that they walk naked, sleep on trees and are cultureless
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 I don’t in any way advocate for clitoridectomy but I am just wondering how insensitive our people must have been then if a neighbor had to come to the rescue of our own daughters being strangled by their own male kinsmen in the name of upholding what seems a demeaning culture. Why else should we theoretically define selfishness if we have such a picture in mind? This continues to be the podium on which anti crusaders preach unless it is erased by a proper defense from the elites familiar with the issue at hand.

Even as we bow to the pressure to demonize and stop what we have been doing for many years, don’t we think there should have been an explanation? If we accept without a rationalization, a number of things are clear here; 

One is that the cultural practice and its advocates were quite primitive or selfish and the second thing is that we didn’t know a thing on human rights and fair treatment of fellow human beings precisely our women and daughters. A third clear indication is that the west came to the rescue of our own people. In other words, it’s like a neighbor barred you from killing your daughter in your selfish pursuits of a meaningless and inhuman cultural practice. Lastly, am left wondering, is it then that the phrase Africa being a dark continent was somehow true until civilization came dressed in combat gear and a shepherd’s cloak holding a bible?

In conclusion, Culture according to Edwin Hitchins in his article Cognition in the Wild, is not a collection of things whether tangible or abstract but a process. It’s a human cognitive process that takes place both inside and outside the minds of people. He goes on to argue that a major component of culture is the cognitive process.

This to me implies that the ability to make sense of concepts is part of culture and that concepts considered appropriate in a particular culture change with time. This is in line with the fact that culture is dynamic. Thus while the female cut was an accepted cultural practice among some people, this changed as the mind got exposed to varied external forces like foreign cultural ideals, modernization and Christianity which resulted in a gradual cognitive change which led to the current stand on the practice once cherished. Knowledge being an element of culture thus helps in furthering equality agenda and upholding human rights. That explains feminism in the 21st century.

THE FUTURE
A majority of people will agree and echo my sentiments that female circumcision is no longer a necessity, but a selfish vehicle used by the male species to rule over and sabotage women’s sexual needs. That it greatly affects the status and development of girls and women, and that it is a reproductive and human rights issue is no secret.

But while clitoridectomy greatly serves to pull back efforts to achieve a fair ground for human rights, initiation of our youths into adulthood still remains a key ingredient in every effort meant to empower the future generations and thus secure the future of gender coexistence. Calling the practice Female Genital Mutilation, Female Castration or Clitoridectomy does not substitute the need for an appropriate socialization mechanism for young people to embrace adulthood.

Even in these somehow human rights undermining cultural environments, there still is future for the girl child. There have been countless efforts from governments and humanitarian organizations both local and international to curb this practice and give people a chance to decide what is best for their own lives culturally speaking.

On Monday, 14 February 2011, the UNICEF released a press report on a conference where over 6,000 communities chose to abandon this cultural practice. According to a joint United Nations program designed to eliminate this practice, the number is growing which assures safety for the girl child’s fundamental right to choice of what cultural practices to subscribe to. 

With the commemoration of 6th February as the international day against the practice, this will create more awareness and bring more crusaders on board. With such efforts, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

REFERENCES
http://www.unfpa.org/public/site/global/lang/en/pid/4830
http://www.orkut.com/CommMsgs?start=1&tid=5600316953754255656&cmm=4805256&hl=en